Being rejected by a girl who you like can really hurt, there’s no doubt about that.
However, there are plenty of ways to make that girl not only jealous, but also make her regret rejecting you in the first place.
We’ve got some talking to do, so let’s get started right away.
How Do You Make A Girl Jealous After Rejection?
Making a girl jealous who rejected you can be rewarding, and two of the best ways of doing that include flirting with her friends as well as flirting with other women in front of her.
However, how you act is going to make or break your ability to make that girl as jealous as can be. Let’s talk about some of the biggest tips when it comes to making her jealous.
And before we begin, make sure that you pay attention to the first tip, as it’s the glue that holds the rest of the tips together in place.
1) Don’t Be Phased By The Rejection
So you want to make that girl jealous after rejecting you? Then make sure that you appear like it hasn’t phased you in any way, shape, or form.
While this might be hard to do, especially if it’s closer to the rejection, doing so will certainly have the woman wondering:
- Why is it not a big deal for him?
- How is he so easily able to bounce back from this?
This tip is first because it’s important that you keep it in mind when it comes to the other tips. You won’t be able to make that girl jealous if you’re acting down and out from the rejection.
From here on out, you are as cool as a California cucumber, and the rejection was just another “No” that you probably already hear hundreds of times per month.
With that in mind, let’s continue on now as we’ve got some juicy details to talk about.
2) Flirt With Her Friends
If you really want to infuse jealousy into the veins of the woman that rejected you, start flirting with her friends, especially her best friends, if she has any.
This might come off as a little evil, but then again, she didn’t have to be so rough around the edges when it came to the rejection in the first place.
What’s great about this tactic is that the girl who rejected you doesn’t have to be around when it happens. However, you’ll definitely get bonus points if that’s how it ends up playing out.
By flirting with her friends, they will naturally tell the girl about it and if she doesn’t get jealous, she’ll most definitely go crazy.
3) Flirt With Other Women When She’s Around
She rejected you, so she’s most definitely going to keep an eye on you when you’re flirting with other girls. This is another great way to invoke jealously to the girl who rejected you.
Once again, this sends a subconscious message that you can handle rejection, and being rejected by her hasn’t fazed you at all. Rather instead, you can flirt with the cute women that are in her vicinity.
There’s no way that she wouldn’t take any notice, especially if those cute women that you’re flirting with are her friends, and are standing right in front of her.
It might not be easy to do, but it’s certainly worth doing to make her jealous.
4) Pull Out Your Phone If She Tries To Speak To You
So after the rejection, she might try and speak with you in person and if she does, pull out your phone and start using it while she talks.
- Seems rude? Most likely.
- But will it make her jealous? Most likely.
Once again, aside from easily moving on after the rejection, this sends her a message that you still have plenty of options and you have no problem keeping in touch with them (even while she’s talking to you)!
You know you’ve hit a nerve when she asks you something similar to:
So… who are you texting?
Try not to smirk if she makes a remark like that. It will be tempting, but remember to keep acting cool throughout the entire process.
5) Talk About How Great You Have Been Doing Lately
If you’re not texting other girls in front of her, then you most certainly want to talk about life has been all sunshine and rainbows lately.
In fact, you don’t even have to mention anything about her or the rejection. Remember, you’re cool about everything and it’s as if it never happened in the first place.
6) Don’t Respond Immediately (Or At All)
If there’s been any texting going on before the rejection, she might try to text you after as well. When that happens, don’t respond immediately, or heck, don’t respond at all.
As always, we are going back to being a cool as possible, and being rejected hasn’t affected you at all. Actually, it has, you’ve become busier living your best life and mingling with other women.
With all of that being said, you wouldn’t have the time of day to get back to her immediately since you are so busy! So let her wonder what you’re doing, especially after she’s seen you flirt and mingle with other women.
If she hasn’t seen you yet, then the next tip will help you put your social life where she can’t miss it; right in front of her nose.
7) Leverage Social Media To Highlight Your Best Days
What better platform to evoke jealously than social media and the internet? Social media is going to be your parade of endless jealously-evoking pictures and videos.
Here are some ideas when it comes to what you can post:
- A new style of clothing.
- Pictures of you smiling with other girls.
- Pictures of you and your new lady friends.
- Oh, did I forget about pictures of you and other girls?
- Improvements on your physique (if you’ve been going to the gym).
I think you get the idea here, but there’s going to be no way for her to escape your onslaught of self-improvement and mingling pictures.
You know she’s become as jealous as possible when she either removes you as a friend or blocks you. This is a good sign that she just couldn’t handle seeing you move onwards and upwards after the rejection.
8) Become Successful And Make Her Jealous (Bonus Tip)
Success is the best revenge, but to add to that, it’s also a great and long-term play when it comes to making that girl jealous.
This is a bonus tip simply for the fact that you’re not going to have a real big success in life with anything overnight. So depending on how long you keep a chip on your shoulder when it comes to that rejection, remember to keep in mind that success can certainly breed jealousy.
Regardless, whether or not you have a small or big success, make sure that sees it. After all, that’s what social media is for, right?
How Do I Act Around A Girl Who Rejected Me?
If you get the opportunity to hang around the girl who rejected me, it’s important that you act as cool and casual as possible. It’s like the rejection never happened.
This is beneficial for quite a few reasons:
- It will help eliminate drama.
- It will keep you from being in a bad mood.
- She might even realize that rejecting you was a mistake.
- Don’t forget about the fact that she can become jealous (as already talked about).
If she still doesn’t want you, that’s fine. So there’s no reason but to play it cool and show her (and possibly other women) that a little rejection isn’t going to stop you from moving forward. Women love that type of confidence.
How Do You Make A Girl Regret Rejecting You? Closing Words
Making a girl regret rejecting you ultimately comes down to you living your best life. Doing this will subconsciously show her that you being rejected wasn’t a big deal, at all.
Aside from regret, you’ll most certainly make her jealous when you practice any of the other tips previously mentioned in the article such as:
- Flirting with her friends.
- Flirting with other girls around her.
- Texting other girls why she talks to you.
- Boasting about how great your life has been.
- Leveraging social media to show her what you’ve been up to.
- Not responding to her calls or texts (or delaying getting back to her).
And don’t forget about being successful overall. Imagine all of the girls who regret rejecting guys who are now rich and famous.
I’m not saying that you have to win a Grammy award or anything, but don’t be afraid to become ultra-successful, as you’ll have a great story to tell about how you got there 😉
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